I Love My Partay Life!

And my party place too, with crazy friends and loud music. Sometimes with my family members and it makes me felt more secure. Of course with my SiDia. Can't leave him behind, ever. He is my bodyguard, my dance partner, my 'pole' and of course my waiter. No one can ever take care of me as good as he did.

Released! When it comes to our party time. We did planned the party, once. But it ended up with terrible problems, here and there. Later than that we learnt something, no plan at all, not more than 20 party people and last minute decision and it works! We always enjoyed the last minute planned and I'm looking forward to enjoy myself again and again.

Joe & Fizi Chillin'

Its happening in here, beybeh!

Dancing is good to boost up my metabolism. I'm sweating like having a shower when I dance. So do other people but they are not 'showered' like I do. Its good for my diet program, dance is included! One more thing, the confident level also goes up to the maximum when you dare, I dare, she dare to wore appropriate party attire. I'm sure u get what I mean.

This party life will be remembered. Gonna party all the way in my entire life. But surely it will flow consistently through my age well. Is it okay to wear a mini-skirt when I'm already 50? My promise, gonna quit soon, when the time is come :) 

Rootz, rockx! 

RM5,000 Sahaja?

Berbaloikah dengan keperitan dan kesengsaraan pasangan yang menderita akibat dari orang ketiga? Ye mungkin denda tidak lebih dari RM5,000 dan penjara selama 3 tahun atau keduanya sekali hanyalah harga si penumpang kasih pada hak orang lain. 

Asalkan ada inisiatif dari pihak berkuasa untuk membendung amalan rakyat Malaysia tak kira sang suami atau isteri yang mempunyai SKANDAL. Sepatutnya sudah lama ianya berkuatkuasa supaya dapat mengubati hati kecewa dan terluka akibat dikhianati, dicurangi.

I dengar berita ini di radio awal pagi, hanya itu waktu I dapat membahagiakan halwa telinga. Tapi bila dibaca balik laporan akhbar di myMetro ianya hanyalah "atas kesalahan memujuk lari perempuan bersuami"... Adakah ini bermaksud untuk wanita yang bersuami sahaja? Bagaimana ye dengan wanita yang suaminya dirampas? Oh, kita selalu terlupa, lelaki dibolehkan untuk berpoligami.

Tak ada apa untuk dikomen berkenaan dengan berita ini. Semuanya sama saja. Yang dah lepas tetap sudah berlalu. I tetap bahagia dengan kehidupan sekarang. Tanpa ada sengketa, indah semuanya dan mengabaikan sejarah hitam yang lalu. Hanya pengajaran yang dapat dijadikan tauladan dalam hidup.

Bagi yang bakal berkahwin dan yang baru mendirikan rumahtangga, keimanan adalah elemen paling penting dalam sesebuah hubungan antara manusia dengan manusia (Habluminannas) yang ditunjangi oleh hubungan manusia dengan Allah (Habluminallah). Kalau elok hubungan kita dengan Allah maka baiklah hubungan kita sesama manusia. 

Bercakap sebagai seseorang yang telah melalui hanya ujian Allah yang 'kecil' di muka bumi ini, bersabarlah dan bertenanglah dengan segala dugaan. Jangan menabur kebencian di dalam hati kerana ianya akan merosakkan diri kita sendiri. Orang yang kita benci mungkin sedang berbahagia, mengapa kita nak bermuram durja? 

Renung-renungkanlah wahai adik-adik, kakak-kakak dan saudara-saudara sesapa Muslimah ku...

Life Unexpected

Meet my favourite TV series, LIFE UNEXPECTED. Meet also Baze (the handsome quarterback), Cate (beautiful co-host of a radio) and Lux (errr..Bug's girlfriend). 

One 'happy' family :)

We cannot expect life to be great, to be perfect, to be what we want to be. This is the lesson I've got from this series. We aimed to get something great, big but sometimes we can't aimed too high or the dream will lead us to frustrated. And I learnt from Baze and Cate that once I did wrong, I can't even turned back the time that I had faced. All the screwed was always a screwed, until you realized that not everyone can be lucky as you. Gosh, I've got so many things running here in my head about this series. I'm so over-excited when watching Life Unexpected. 

Baze's Dad wants that, Baze's Mom wants this, Cate's Mom was married with 5 men before and Cate's sister had something in her mind. What abput Lux? She's just 15 and she had been survived for her whole life. Now she's having her parents back and she had to adapt with the situation to believe that she has a family.

Its important to be firm on your decision. Its also important to be yourself without hurting anyone's feeling especially your family. Everyday you have to learn on new things that so called, LIFE. Do watch LIFE UNEXPECTED to learn on how to expect less in order for you to gain more in life. Nice series, I'm looking forward to have all the episodes for me to add it as my personal collection.

May Allah Bless You Always, Satasah

Tasha, you are Zafril's wife now! Quit all the craziness behind and start your new life. I'm happy for your wedding, you are not really alone now, though. You have someone to hold back while you are sleeping, you have someone watching you when you woke up every morning and you have someone's care when you are sick. The sacred relationship is belongs to you now, my dear Satasah :) No, I ain't cry on your wedding day but I'm crying now while typing these messages.

my beautiful Tasha and her husband, Zafril

We shared almost everything since 1982, which is the year we were born. We grew up together and we played the same game when we went to Opah's place during we were just a small kids. We live in our own dream when we ride on swings, sliding on the slide and run through the field at playground. Not only that, we slept on the same pillow and shared the same blanket. We ate together when we were hungry and our mom ask us to showered together, but, we were playing with foams. What a memories...

During our teenagers, we shared our party life together! I even wore Tasha's clothes and she wore my accessories. I knew all her boyfriends, so do Tasha. We laughed when stupidity came across our mind. I don't have good voices as Tasha, until she went to the audition, I was there giving her support, but she failed then but it was not the end. We were like sisters. So do, Nalynn, who took care of us well, as she is our big sister, till now, till eternity. Nothing can do us part, no one. 

I always pray for Tasha and Zafril, same goes to Nalynn and Aziz happiness in this world and hereafter. I'm happy whenever they are happy and I'm crying with them when they are sad or down. I hope Tasha is reading this although I know she's not. It's ok I'll just keep it to myself..

Dear Tasha,

Always remember my dear, when you do good things to people, especially to your family, it will come back to you. After all your prays, sacrifices, you deserves him and he suits you well, too. Allah wants you to afar from any suffering, enough for 30 years, you'll get a better life now. Be a good wife to Zafril, he needs you to be his other half, to be the mother of his kids. Get pregnant as fast as you both can, ok? I can't wait to see your baby. They might sweet as both you. Take a good care of your marriage and yourself as well. Obey your husband and trust me, don't ever fight with your in laws, its not good. Be patient, in case of there are hurdles in front of you, think smart but when you are about to fall off the cliff, remember to grab the rope and it will save you. As always, I will always be your rope, forever. I don't want you to fall. Just call me and I'll pull you off from falling. As long as I'm still alive in this world ;) I am sorry for what I have done wrong to you, I'm having my adulthood process, to be me now, to be your twin sister forever.

We were twins during our childhood, same face but different size :D hahaha

I LOVE BOTH YOU, SISTERS - my family, my life, my bittersweet...everything..

Now I know what is Tasha's feeling when I left her 5 years ago with my 'prince-charming-in-a-handsome-mask-but-have-black-heart-inside'... I feel alone now, thanks to my dear Hafizi for being there for me always but I still miss Tasha :'( 

Pernikahan Kak Long

Tahniah sepupuku, Sharina! Nama manja yang kami sekeluarga panggil Kak Long je. Dalam adik beradik Ayah, I adalah cucu pertama Tok Chah dan Arwah Tok Wan. Dan Kak Long adalah cucu kedua. Beza kami 2 tahun dan Kak Long menamatkan zaman anak daranya pada 22 Mac 2013 yang lepas di Masjid Al Hidayah, Taman Melawati. Memang berbeza dan pertama kali dalam sejarah hidup I tengok seorang adik menikahkan kakaknya.. Iye, Pak Ngah dah meninggal tahun lepas. Azwar sebagai Bang Ngah menikahkan sendiri Kak Long dan... I sangat touching bila tengok walaupun ahli keluarga mereka yang lain relax je. Tapi di hati....

Dekat sini ade beberapa keping gambar pernikahan Kak Long dan suami tercinta. Mana taknya, I dari Seremban dengan office ade gotong-royong terus bergegas ke Taman Melawati untuk majlis selepas Asar. Tak sempat nak grab camera merah sayang mucuk-mucuk tu. 

Kak Long yang disayangi,

Semoga perkahwinan ini diberkati Allah SWT sehingga ke syurga, 

Dikurniakan anak-anak yang soleh dan solehah,

Dilimpahi rezeki dan dipermudahkan segala urusan rumahtangga, 

Jadilah isteri yang solehah dan menghormati suami,

Jadilah Ibu yang mithali kepada anak-anak kelak,

Semoga perkahwinan ini dijauhkan dari anasir-anasir jahat,

Insya Allah....

Kata-kata pakcik jurunikah ni menusuk di hati :'(

Bang Ngah dan bakal abang ipar

Selamat Pengantin Baru!

Sweet :)